Smurfette

Art
Some YSL and Chloe goodies
City Walks
Barnbys first bone
Semi Updo 
Lights, Camera, Action
Beautiful Rose and Barnby’s silly tounge 
US Open 2013 countdown 
A delicious lunch at Serafina 
An amazing art piece found uptown (Smurfette) and me, posing of course!

Reverse Psychology

Yesterday I was having a conversation with someone whose grandfather always jokes that he is going to be die. Apparently the jokes been around for years (bless him)! And my response to his proclaim was reverse psychology. He tells himself he is going to die-to stay alive.

So your probably wondering why I’m beginning a post with such a morbid topic, or why I am talking about death at 10 am on a Friday morning. But reverse psychology is a very clever technique. So lets become exactly clear on the definition. According to dictionary.com, reverse psychology (in nontechnical use) ” is a method of getting another person to do what one wants by pretending not to want it or to want something else or something more.”

But it doesn’t work on everyone, as people who hate being told what to do, care more about the power struggle itself than what the struggle is about. With that being said, I personally think that this is the reason why people do things that there told not to do, or told that they can’t do. When someone tells me (or tries to tell me) that I can’t do something, I am all for proving that person wrong-and doing exactly like that.

It’s kind of like when a child is told not to eat the cake in front of him. The first thing he now wants to do is eat the cake.  Anyway on a completely different note lets talk about celeb biz/buzz. Simon Cowell has impregnated a married woman known as Lauren Silverman, Megan fox is pregnant with her second child, Ellen Degeneres is hosting the oscars, and  Kim Kardashian finally appeared in a brief  (pre recorded) video on her mother Kris Jenners chat show the same day that circulation sparks on Kourtney Kardashians third pregnancy.

Oh and once again Lindsey Lohan is out of rehab. As the summer days seem to be flying by, celebrity drama seems to be at an all time high, along with my (continuous) desire to go to the Bahamas and regain a suntan. Usually at this time of year I’m ready to go back to school, and get my brain back into action..but as I have been taking summer credits this year, it seems as though school never stopped and summer never started.

Ink48

Ink48 is my new favorite rooftop bar. From the vibe to the view, the trendy hot spot seemed almost impossible not to snap pictures of (despite living in NY for 11+ years). The boutique hotel is located where 11th avenue meets west 48th street, and in set of a former painting house (hence the name Ink48). So incase my words haven’t yet enticed you to head there, see the pictures below to better understand the perfect after work bar!

Ink48
A Starbucks Heart Straw (it was hard to drink out of!) 
Blue Print Cleanse
INK48 Rooftop Bar 

A letter from JP Morgan CEO to Gold Diggers

JP Morgan Chase Letter 

 An alleged “young and pretty” girl posted a forum on a popular website, asking what she should do to “find a rich guy”.

 Despite this screaming: desperate, low class and gold digger, I also have to add in that she clearly has no decorum. 

So lets read from the original source

 What should I do to marry a rich guy?
I’m going to be honest of what I’m going to say here.
I’m 25 this year. I’m very pretty, have style and good taste. I wish to marry a guy with $500k annual salary or above.
You might say that I’m greedy, but an annual salary of $1M is considered only as middle class in New York.
My requirement is not high. Is there anyone in this forum who has an income of $500k annual salary? Are you all married?
I wanted to ask: what should I do to marry rich persons like you?
Among those I’ve dated, the richest is $250k annual income, and it seems that this is my upper limit.
If someone is going to move into high cost residential area on the west of New York City Garden(?), $250k annual income is not enough.
I’m here humbly to ask a few questions:

1) Where do most rich bachelors hang out? (Please list down the names and addresses of bars, restaurant, gym)
2) Which age group should I target?
3) Why most wives of the riches are only average-looking? I’ve met a few girls who don’t have looks and are not interesting, but they are able to marry rich guys.
4) How do you decide who can be your wife, and who can only be your girlfriend? (my target now is to get married)

-Ms. Pretty

A philosophical reply from the “apparent” CEO of J.P. Morgan:

Dear Ms. Pretty,

I have read your post with great interest. Guess there are lots of girls out there who have similar questions like yours. Please allow me to analyse your situation as a professional investor.
My annual income is more than $500k, which meets your requirement, so I hope everyone believes that I’m not wasting time here.
From the standpoint of a business person, it is a bad decision to marry you. The answer is very simple, so let me explain.
Put the details aside, what you’re trying to do is an exchange of “beauty” and “money” : Person A provides beauty, and Person B pays for it, fair and square.
However, there’s a deadly problem here, your beauty will fade, but my money will not be gone without any good reason. The fact is, my income might increase from year to year, but you can’t be prettier year after year.
Hence from the viewpoint of economics, I am an appreciation asset, and you are a depreciation asset. It’s not just normal depreciation, but exponential depreciation. If that is your only asset, your value will be much worse 10 years later.
By the terms we use in Wall Street, every trading has a position, dating with you is also a “trading position”.
If the trade value dropped we will sell it and it is not a good idea to keep it for long term – same goes with the marriage that you wanted. It might be cruel to say this, but in order to make a wiser decision any assets with great depreciation value will be sold or “leased”.
Anyone with over $500k annual income is not a fool; we would only date you, but will not marry you. I would advice that you forget looking for any clues to marry a rich guy. And by the way, you could make yourself to become a rich person with $500k annual income.This has better chance than finding a rich fool.

Hope this reply helps.

signed,
J.P. Morgan CEO

Controversial advertisements

I first thought of writing this topic when doing some PR work. We were each asked to pick out an advertisement of our choice and share why we believe it is controversial. At first, I couldn’t think of one, so I decided to google the subject. This is where I stumbled upon the website “oneextrapixel” and gasped as I read their article “60+ More Extreme and Controversial Ads to Stun You Again”. Scrolling through multiple advertisements that range from an elephant being duct taped, an elderly woman in an old peoples home knitting a hang rope, a butcher barbering a person with a butches knife, and multiple more. 
Sisley 
While I felt like I had something to say about each of them, an advertisement that really stood out (in terms of fashion) was one named “Fashion Junkie” by Sisley. At first glance when looking at the advertisement I see two girls who look to be snorting cocaine, which cohesively from two straps of a dress. After researching other peoples viewpoint on the Sisleys ad, I learnt that  Zoo Advertising in Shangahi, China had published the advertisement in June of 2007.
An advertisement by Good Parent 

So are critics acting to hash against the controversial ad that is believed to support bad habits such as drugs, or maybe conveying that, in order to be fashionable cocaine should be used? 

When I wanted to learn more about the company Sisley, I was led to a blog written by Brianna Dewulf.  Sisley is an Italian based brand owned by United Colors of Benetton. To no surprise they are notoriously known for their racy advertisements, instead of their clothing. “It hit the Internet and is posted on a lot of other sites that have to do controversial advertising or as they sometimes call it “shockvertising.”  The name speaks for itself.” She writes, going on to depict the companies advertising technique even more.
 Aside from one girls breast hanging our of her dress (which I barely noticed until a follow blogger pointed it out!), a Chase credit card is also seen at the side of the dress with white powder on it (amusingly made to look like cocaine).
 “I chose this ad out of all the other ones I saw on the Internet because this one just got to me. I can’t help but to think, “What the hell is wrong with their advertising agency?” Do they know how this might affect their audience?” says Brianna Dewulf. Meanwhile I can’t help but wonder what JP Morgan had to say about this public advertisement or how its legal?

I then went on to read another blog post written by Alex Sheppard, who writes how “nonchalantly” Sisley prints their name in the middle of the image, promoting the obsession and addiction to “fashion” as long as it’s with their brand. “They’ve managed to take a scenario that would turn most people away from the product and tried to sell their own with that message. It’s really quite astonishing.” she writes.
Reading other peoples opinions on this advertisement really helped me analyze it, in many different ways. And even notice specific details,  like the Chase credit card.
Once an organization has received product publicity in a magazine, it should market the publicity further to achieve maximum “sales punch”.  Clearly this advertisement uses Pathos in order to invoke a strong reaction from those who see it and spark emotion. Sisley wanted to cross the line and grab peoples attention in order to get their name out there. Even if it meant reaching to extreme measures by  having an advertisement with two models snorting lines of cocaine. 
Over all this advertisement is like the saying “Bad Press is Better than No Press”, it incites anger and controversy around their name and brand image, but at the end of the day people were still talking about Sisley, which is exactly what advertisers want to happen. 
Being memorable” is one of the most important tasks in business, along with branding. A brand needs to stand out in every way that it can, especially as there are countless clothing advertisements and companies out there. 
While I do believe that this advertisement is bold in terms of producing company awareness, I don’t believe that it will bring any more business to the brand. After all-how many dresses did you notice? 

Supreme

Being a big kid in Fendi and Peach  
Playing dress up (in store) wearing MTTM Supreme hat (I blurred out what it said on it!) 
Dylans Candy Bar
Amaranth and Bubbly 
Shopping & Macaroons (lets hope Clinique works wonders!) 

The City

A gorgeous view! 
Smiles from Midtown Manhattan
Barnby getting dressed up by the little ones & udon soup from Fuji. Luckily we skipped out on the saki! 
A giant dragon fly and a present for Louise (my mums lovely best friend & Poppys Godmother)  visiting from England